My friends will text me and ask what I’ve got on my agenda for the day, and several times a week, my reply will be “odds and ends”. Quite often, when I ask what they have planned, they will say the same. These odds and these ends can fill a…

Three years ago today my mom passed away.Mom and I were so close that I had assumed I would sense her presence. People tell me she is with me and I nod in response, but on the inside, I am disappointed not to feel her with me. I assumed I…

. . . into a bathtub full of water, and a legally blind woman is there not to see it, does it make a sound?  You bet your rubber ducky it does.  PROOF Selfie taken at splashdown:

When I first lost my vision, I started saving magazines to read when my sight returned and when it did, I drove myself off into the sunset, as the credits rolled, and the profound song blasted, well, profoundly. The song was, no doubt, Gloria Estefan’s Comung Out Of The Dark, which,…

Before I became visually challenged, I traveled a lot for work. I would be gone from home at lecast one week each month. I was telling someone today how difficult and stressful packing last week for my trip was. And then I said this, “I used to be able to…

Seventeen years after the movie You’ve Got Mail opened in movie theaters, I still love the sound of a new text message arriving on my phone. On days when I have no plans, it is totally usual not to talk to another person until my husband returns home in the evening….

My mom and I spent 30+ days at the beach (we call it ‘the shore’) every year for 30 years. We would go not just in the summer, but in the spring and fall as well. It was home away from home. My mom passed away three years ago next…

Sometimes I am angrier when I find something that I’ve lost than when I lost it in the first place. 

You never know what lies underneath until you let it cool, then flip it over.  Sometimes it’s what you expected, sometimes you get a happy surprise.  And sometimes the surprise is an ugly mess. 

Bra shopping with your husband.